After weeks of researching Zoot Suit themed weddings, Zoo weddings and Zebra print wedding accesssories, this post entitled, "The Zen Approach to Wedding Planning" ended my quest for the final topic of the A-B-C's of All Things Wedding blog series. Z is for Zen, because there is never a bad time to be reminded that it is good to take a step back, live in the moment, and put things into perspective.
Wedding planning can be a stressful. There are budget concerns, so many decisions to be made, and the opinions of others to contend with, but it is important not to lose sight of what the day is really about. Take a short break, a deep breath, and a few pointers from these links!
It would be difficult to completely avoid stress. (If you've found a way to do so, please let everyone in on your secret immediately!) One way to reduce the pressures of wedding planning, is to keep things simple. From the guest list, to the meal, to hiring a wedding planner/coordinator to help out where you need it, taking steps to avoid getting in over your head will make things easier in the long run. For more ideas on how to keep your wedding simple, CLICK HERE.
Make sure that you take care of yourself and do what you need to do in order to relax. Schedule the occasional massage, treat yourself to a bubble bath, or any of these other options: CLICK HERE. Try to enjoy the process - selecting the dress of your dreams, spending time with family and friends, giving and receiving gifts, and most importantly... marrying the person you love and want to spend the rest of your life with.
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Showing posts with label Wedding Alphabet. Show all posts
Friday, October 12, 2012
Thursday, October 11, 2012
Y is for Years
On October 1st, 2012 we celebrated our first year as an event venue.
Your wedding day is just the first of many, many days as husband and wife. Each anniversary, you and your spouse can celebrate another year together, and fortunately, there is already a set list of symbols and gift ideas to mark each milestone! You can find a chart for each anniversary celebration and its corresponding traditional gift, modern gift idea, gemstone, and flower here: http://www.the-wedding-anniversary-site.com/wedding-anniversary-gift-list.html.
Gift Ideas through the Years:
1st Anniversary - Paper is the traditional gift for year number one! You could order your spouse monogrammed stationery, a journal or notebook, a unique map from somewhere you've traveled together or thought about going, a scrapbook, a calendar, tickets to a show, or go on a romantic picnic using paper products. Cute!
For these ideas and more: Click Here or Click Here.
2nd Anniversary - If you saw "cotton" and "straw" and immediately thought about removing nail polish while on a hay ride... well, that makes two of us, but I would not recommend celebrating your second wedding anniversary in that fashion. Instead, think beyond the cotton ball and buy new cotton sheets, towels, or knitting supplies. A hay ride may not be a bad option, but you may also think about wicker storage baskets, handbags or hats.
These ideas were inspired HERE.
3rd Anniversary - If leather jackets and motorcycles are not your cup of tea, you could opt for a leather bound book or a leather bookmark. Maybe a leather carrying case or wallet?
The 4th Anniversary is traditionally celebrated with books, flowers or fruit.
For the 5th Anniversary, a wooden frame, engraved wooden chopsticks for two, a wooden ice bucket or a personalized wooden cutting board, would all be considered acceptable gifts.
CLICK HERE for these and similar ideas.
Skipping ahead to the 10th Anniversary, aluminum and tin are the traditional gift ideas to commemorate the occasion. A sculpted jewelry tree? A new set of cufflinks?
The following anniversaries are just some of the big mile markers and the traditional gifts associated with the celebration:
15th Anniversary - Crystal.
20th Anniversary - China.
25th Anniversary - Silver.
50th Anniversary - Gold.
75th Anniversary - Diamond.
Your wedding day is just the first of many, many days as husband and wife. Each anniversary, you and your spouse can celebrate another year together, and fortunately, there is already a set list of symbols and gift ideas to mark each milestone! You can find a chart for each anniversary celebration and its corresponding traditional gift, modern gift idea, gemstone, and flower here: http://www.the-wedding-anniversary-site.com/wedding-anniversary-gift-list.html.
Gift Ideas through the Years:
1st Anniversary - Paper is the traditional gift for year number one! You could order your spouse monogrammed stationery, a journal or notebook, a unique map from somewhere you've traveled together or thought about going, a scrapbook, a calendar, tickets to a show, or go on a romantic picnic using paper products. Cute!
For these ideas and more: Click Here or Click Here.
2nd Anniversary - If you saw "cotton" and "straw" and immediately thought about removing nail polish while on a hay ride... well, that makes two of us, but I would not recommend celebrating your second wedding anniversary in that fashion. Instead, think beyond the cotton ball and buy new cotton sheets, towels, or knitting supplies. A hay ride may not be a bad option, but you may also think about wicker storage baskets, handbags or hats.
These ideas were inspired HERE.
3rd Anniversary - If leather jackets and motorcycles are not your cup of tea, you could opt for a leather bound book or a leather bookmark. Maybe a leather carrying case or wallet?
The 4th Anniversary is traditionally celebrated with books, flowers or fruit.
For the 5th Anniversary, a wooden frame, engraved wooden chopsticks for two, a wooden ice bucket or a personalized wooden cutting board, would all be considered acceptable gifts.
CLICK HERE for these and similar ideas.
Skipping ahead to the 10th Anniversary, aluminum and tin are the traditional gift ideas to commemorate the occasion. A sculpted jewelry tree? A new set of cufflinks?
The following anniversaries are just some of the big mile markers and the traditional gifts associated with the celebration:
15th Anniversary - Crystal.
20th Anniversary - China.
25th Anniversary - Silver.
50th Anniversary - Gold.
75th Anniversary - Diamond.
Tuesday, October 9, 2012
Crossword Answers
Spoiler Alert!
If you missed yesterday's post, it was an awesome wedding related crossword puzzle. Today's post contains the answers to that puzzle. If you would like to complete the puzzle yourself, stop reading now and check the previous post!
You were warned... If you don't want the answers, don't look!
If you do want the answers, please see below!
How did you do?
If you missed yesterday's post, it was an awesome wedding related crossword puzzle. Today's post contains the answers to that puzzle. If you would like to complete the puzzle yourself, stop reading now and check the previous post!
You were warned... If you don't want the answers, don't look!
If you do want the answers, please see below!
How did you do?
Monday, October 8, 2012
X is for... Crossword!
Rather than admit defeat and confess that I cannot come up with a good wedding related word beginning with the letter X, there has been an innovative substitution of the letter X for the word Cross, so that you may enjoy today's wedding themed crossword puzzle! Enjoy!
The answers will be posted tomorrow :)
Thursday, September 27, 2012
W is for Website
It's the "in" thing... Creating a wedding website gives your guests access to all of the relevant wedding information that they need to know. There are a multitude of free providers that allow you to post the date, time, location, directions, and information on accommodations. The planning for your wedding is greatly simplified for guests, especially for those who need to make travel arrangements.
Many websites feature plannin tools that can help you track RSVPs and meal requests. You can blog about your planning, share updates about the wedding, and communicate with guests before and after the big day. Depending on what provider you use, the pictures and comments can all remain on the site and serve as a great wa to look back and reminisce! (Some providers do have expiration dates for the sites, often one year after the date of the wedding.)
Many websites feature plannin tools that can help you track RSVPs and meal requests. You can blog about your planning, share updates about the wedding, and communicate with guests before and after the big day. Depending on what provider you use, the pictures and comments can all remain on the site and serve as a great wa to look back and reminisce! (Some providers do have expiration dates for the sites, often one year after the date of the wedding.)
Click through the links to wedding website providers below and pick the one that works for you!
Wednesday, September 26, 2012
V is for Vows
The vows are a BIG part of the wedding. Often one of the most emotional moments, as the bride and groom promise to love and cherish one another forever. It is the moment that seals the deal after all of the planning and preparation leading up to the wedding day, and it is the moment that is celebrated by family and friends afterward.
There are the traditional vows... "I, _______, take you, _______, for my lawful wife/husband, to have and to hold, from this day forward, for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and health, until death do us part." (For this, similar adaptations, as well as non-traditional vows: CLICK HERE.)
The non-traditional vows... Maybe you choose to go with a poem or reading?
Or even the vows you write yourself... I love this post from A Practical Wedding! Follow the link for sage advice from someone who has been there and done that!
If you're feeling overwhelmed or looking for inspiration, take a cue from Hollywood. The exchange of vows is a memorable moment, on screen and off. Check out this article featuring some of the most romantic/sentimental and cheesy/comical vows from TV and the movies: CLICK HERE.
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Image from keepandshare.com |
There are the traditional vows... "I, _______, take you, _______, for my lawful wife/husband, to have and to hold, from this day forward, for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and health, until death do us part." (For this, similar adaptations, as well as non-traditional vows: CLICK HERE.)
The non-traditional vows... Maybe you choose to go with a poem or reading?
Or even the vows you write yourself... I love this post from A Practical Wedding! Follow the link for sage advice from someone who has been there and done that!
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Picture from buzzsugar.com |
If you're feeling overwhelmed or looking for inspiration, take a cue from Hollywood. The exchange of vows is a memorable moment, on screen and off. Check out this article featuring some of the most romantic/sentimental and cheesy/comical vows from TV and the movies: CLICK HERE.
Monday, September 24, 2012
U is for Umbrella
Rain on your wedding day? You lucky duck! ...So superstition says.
Rain is not something that most people hope for, but unfortunately, the weather is not something that you can accurately anticipate in your planning. If you're holding any portion of your event outside, make sure you have a backup plan. More importantly than having a Plan B, loveandlobster.com recommends that you like your second option; if a tent was not what you had in mind, remember that may be the only solution in the event of rain. Even if you are having your ceremony and reception indoors, inclement weather can put a damper on the day and make travel inconvenient for guests.
Don't let the possibility of scattered showers rain on your parade though. Make the best of the situation! Rain gives you some great photo opportunities and the chance to accessorize! Weddingbee.com has a fantastic collection of rainy day wedding pictures, including the picture below.
Umbrellas can be coordinated to match your wedding colors, used as props (and a practical necessity) in pictures, and can help make the best of your rainy wedding day. Loveandlobster.com also points out that you can take the rain theme a bit further and add "brightly colored galoshes and wellies, [to] brighten up any drab day."
Even without the rain, there are plenty of cute options for umbrellas and parasols that can make your wedding photos unique and memorable.
Rain is not something that most people hope for, but unfortunately, the weather is not something that you can accurately anticipate in your planning. If you're holding any portion of your event outside, make sure you have a backup plan. More importantly than having a Plan B, loveandlobster.com recommends that you like your second option; if a tent was not what you had in mind, remember that may be the only solution in the event of rain. Even if you are having your ceremony and reception indoors, inclement weather can put a damper on the day and make travel inconvenient for guests.
Don't let the possibility of scattered showers rain on your parade though. Make the best of the situation! Rain gives you some great photo opportunities and the chance to accessorize! Weddingbee.com has a fantastic collection of rainy day wedding pictures, including the picture below.
Umbrellas can be coordinated to match your wedding colors, used as props (and a practical necessity) in pictures, and can help make the best of your rainy wedding day. Loveandlobster.com also points out that you can take the rain theme a bit further and add "brightly colored galoshes and wellies, [to] brighten up any drab day."
Even without the rain, there are plenty of cute options for umbrellas and parasols that can make your wedding photos unique and memorable.
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Photo from Longwoodevents.com |
Tuesday, September 18, 2012
T is for Theme
The theme is a great way to bring all of the elements of your wedding together. The overall idea can grow from the location of the wedding, a specific time period, style or color. Try to avoid picking a theme that will overshadow the meaning of the day, but don't hesitate to pick a theme if it is one that makes your day more fun and adds meaning for you.
There are many great pictures, blog posts, and recommendations for themed weddings online to help you generate your own ideas. Check out this post on Micanonymous - I love the Starry Starry Night theme (#18 of 30, see below) and the Travel theme (#26 of 30, see below).
There are many great pictures, blog posts, and recommendations for themed weddings online to help you generate your own ideas. Check out this post on Micanonymous - I love the Starry Starry Night theme (#18 of 30, see below) and the Travel theme (#26 of 30, see below).
You can also find some... interesting(?) wedding themes involving costumes and props. If you're into sci-fi, comics, or are just feeling particularly theatrical... no judgment here!
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Star Wars Wedding from Unrealitymag.com |
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Super Hero Wedding from thegeektwins.com |
For a more subtle theme, but still one that can be worked into every part of your wedding day, I love the monochromatic themes and themes that double as colors/flavors, i.e. mint, peach, or the champagne theme featured on MarthaStewartWeddings.com pictured below!
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Champagne Theme |
Seasonal themes can also be really beautiful, and they can be as simple or as elaborate as you want.
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Fall Wedding |
Thursday, September 13, 2012
S is for Seating
Should you assign seats, tables, or let everyone wing it? No matter what you decide, your guests will likely figure out where to take a seat - however, having a plan does make it easier for everyone in the long run.
Why have a plan? Inevitably, (especially with larger guest lists) there will be relatives who are no longer speaking to each other, childhood friends who desperately want to sit together, or an out of town guest who doesn't know anyone else and is not comfortable approaching a table full of strangers without some direction. Having a plan will greatly reduce the stress levels and potential anxiety of those in attendance. It will also ensure that people who want to be near friends or family, can be.
Where to start? Think about the floor plan of the room. Try a variety of arrangements and don't be afraid to switch things around and see which plans work best.
Decide on where the bridal table will be (if you want to have one) and who will be seated at it. Traditionally, the bride and groom are the focal point of the room, but it is completely up to you. Some couples choose to sit at their own "sweetheart" table, some sit with their Maid of Honor and Best Man, others have a long head table with the full bridal party. The significant others of your bridal party who are attending the wedding can either be seated at the head table or at other tables in the room. If being the center of attention does not sound appealing, you could sit among your guests, or leave a few chairs open at tables around the room so that you can switch tables throughout the night.
After you have decided where you and your groom will be and where your bridesmaids and groomsmen will sit, think about the immediate family and close friends. Do you want a family table with the parents and grandparents of the bride and groom together? Do you want separate tables for the bride's family and groom's family? Are there any divorces or family tensions that need to be considered? If so, separate tables can help ease the stress that sharing close quarters during the meal could cause.
Next, think about friends of the family and more distant relatives. Are there people on your guest list who you don't know well? Don't stress, this is a good area to involve your mom or mother-in-law-to-be. Assign specific tables or groups to them, without letting them take control of all of it. Are kids invited to the wedding? Will they be in their own area or seated at the tables with their parents.
*Side note - if you have invited children to the wedding and reception, consider hiring a babysitter. This will help ensure that the kids are entertained and happy, and give their parents a break for the evening.
Use a seating chart or place cards to direct your guests to their table or seat.
Why have a plan? Inevitably, (especially with larger guest lists) there will be relatives who are no longer speaking to each other, childhood friends who desperately want to sit together, or an out of town guest who doesn't know anyone else and is not comfortable approaching a table full of strangers without some direction. Having a plan will greatly reduce the stress levels and potential anxiety of those in attendance. It will also ensure that people who want to be near friends or family, can be.
Where to start? Think about the floor plan of the room. Try a variety of arrangements and don't be afraid to switch things around and see which plans work best.
Decide on where the bridal table will be (if you want to have one) and who will be seated at it. Traditionally, the bride and groom are the focal point of the room, but it is completely up to you. Some couples choose to sit at their own "sweetheart" table, some sit with their Maid of Honor and Best Man, others have a long head table with the full bridal party. The significant others of your bridal party who are attending the wedding can either be seated at the head table or at other tables in the room. If being the center of attention does not sound appealing, you could sit among your guests, or leave a few chairs open at tables around the room so that you can switch tables throughout the night.
Sweetheart Table
Headtable for Wedding Party
After you have decided where you and your groom will be and where your bridesmaids and groomsmen will sit, think about the immediate family and close friends. Do you want a family table with the parents and grandparents of the bride and groom together? Do you want separate tables for the bride's family and groom's family? Are there any divorces or family tensions that need to be considered? If so, separate tables can help ease the stress that sharing close quarters during the meal could cause.
Next, think about friends of the family and more distant relatives. Are there people on your guest list who you don't know well? Don't stress, this is a good area to involve your mom or mother-in-law-to-be. Assign specific tables or groups to them, without letting them take control of all of it. Are kids invited to the wedding? Will they be in their own area or seated at the tables with their parents.
*Side note - if you have invited children to the wedding and reception, consider hiring a babysitter. This will help ensure that the kids are entertained and happy, and give their parents a break for the evening.
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Seating Chart and Gift Table |
Use a seating chart or place cards to direct your guests to their table or seat.
Tuesday, September 11, 2012
R is for Rings
If you are an avid reader of our blog (and we hope that you are) you may have seen our "J is for Jewelry" post and be thinking, "Hey! They already covered rings!" Before you jump to the conclusion that we have completely run out of ideas to blog about, (save that thought for when we get to U, Y and Z of this alphabet series) this is a new concept for rings.
Well, new for us anyway. We like to stay informed on developing trends in the industry. We carefully monitor our social media sites, check wedding boards and Google like crazy. The latest topic to catch our attention - "mangagement" rings. This Huffington Post UK article, dated 5/12/11 suggests that we are behind the times on this one, but we'd prefer to think of it as fashionably late.
Within the United States, women are traditionally the wearers of the engagement ring, however, according to the article, engagement rings for men are not uncommon around the globe. Yes, we are talking diamond rings worn publicly during the engagement period to signify the commitment they are making to their fiance. It is this sign of commitment, and all that it means, that is making men... "Put a ring on it," so to speak.
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Canadian crooner, Micahel Bubble, proudly wearing his mangagement ring. |
TheKnot.com and MensHealth.com conducted a survey in 2011 and found that 5% of men were wearing mangagement rings, and 17% were open to the idea (sodahead.com). Some men choose to wear their wedding band early, while others upgrade to a new ring during the ceremony or switch the ring from the right to left hand. Some men sport both rings. There is still a ways to go before this practice becomes commonplace, but with more women feeling comfortable with initiating the proposal and with both individuals equally committed to each other, why not?
Monday, September 10, 2012
Q is for Quilt
According to Wikipedia, "quilting traditions are particularly prominent in the United States." It was an activity that combined practical needs (warm bedding) with creative and social elements. Wedding quilts were often given to the new bride, as she would not have enough time to complete quilts of her own for her family right away, to help her establish her new home. Other sources suggest that the bride was expected to make 13 quilts during the time of her engagement, in preparation for her marriage.
The wedding quilt traditionally includes symbols of love and good fortune in the design. In the 1800s, quilting bees were held to mark special occasions (often upcoming weddings) and women in the community would gather together to help sew quilts (Let's Talk about Fabric). These events were often considered engagement announcements.
"Wedding ring" quilts are a common quilt pattern, popularized in the 1930s.
The wedding quilt traditionally includes symbols of love and good fortune in the design. In the 1800s, quilting bees were held to mark special occasions (often upcoming weddings) and women in the community would gather together to help sew quilts (Let's Talk about Fabric). These events were often considered engagement announcements.
"Wedding ring" quilts are a common quilt pattern, popularized in the 1930s.
A quilt can also serve as a unique idea for a guest book. Have guests sign squares of fabric that can later be sewn together into a quilt.
Check out these quilt-inspired wedding cakes from MarthaStewartWeddings.com
Thursday, September 6, 2012
P is for Programs
Bring attention to all of the elements of your ceremony and/or reception that have meaning to you in your program. Whether designed and produced by a professional, computer software, or all you - the program gives your guests a timeline and helps explain the significance of the people, readings, songs and traditions that you've made a part of your day.
The DIY programs can be more affordable (note the word can - take the total cost of supplies and the time investment into consideration!) and throwing a party and inviting friends to help put everything together could be fun. For suggestions on how to find affordable DIY program supplies: CLICK HERE. There are many different style options, from a single sheet printed both front and back to a booklet style using cardstock and liner paper, bound with a ribbon. A program fan is great for a summer wedding!
You can designate a friend or relative to distribute the programs to guests entering the ceremony, have your ushers hand them out as they seat your guests, or have the programs already in the seats.
What should your programs include?
* The full names of the bride and the groom.
* The date and location of the wedding.
* The order of the wedding ceremony. (Include titles of songs, the composers and the performers; list the readings, the source, and the readers.) It is often helpful to explain the significance of the traditions in the ceremony. You may also want to include information for the reception, or create a separate program for that portion of the event. This gives your guests a timeline and highlights your favorite moments.
* Include the names of your wedding party and their relation to you.
* Name the officiant.
* A common addition is a thank you to the parents of the bride and groom, as well as a thank you to all of the guests for attending.
* A memorial for the loved ones who may have passed away is also appropriate for the back page of the program.
The DIY programs can be more affordable (note the word can - take the total cost of supplies and the time investment into consideration!) and throwing a party and inviting friends to help put everything together could be fun. For suggestions on how to find affordable DIY program supplies: CLICK HERE. There are many different style options, from a single sheet printed both front and back to a booklet style using cardstock and liner paper, bound with a ribbon. A program fan is great for a summer wedding!
You can designate a friend or relative to distribute the programs to guests entering the ceremony, have your ushers hand them out as they seat your guests, or have the programs already in the seats.
What should your programs include?
* The full names of the bride and the groom.
* The date and location of the wedding.
* The order of the wedding ceremony. (Include titles of songs, the composers and the performers; list the readings, the source, and the readers.) It is often helpful to explain the significance of the traditions in the ceremony. You may also want to include information for the reception, or create a separate program for that portion of the event. This gives your guests a timeline and highlights your favorite moments.
* Include the names of your wedding party and their relation to you.
* Name the officiant.
* A common addition is a thank you to the parents of the bride and groom, as well as a thank you to all of the guests for attending.
* A memorial for the loved ones who may have passed away is also appropriate for the back page of the program.
Friday, August 31, 2012
O is for Olde
"Something olde,
something new,
something borrowed,
something blue,
and a silver sixpence in your shoe."
There are numerous ways to incorporate "something old" into the wedding. The tradition originating from the old English ryhme above refers to the bride's family and close friends giving her gifts to show love and bring good luck. The old represents the continity between the past and future, the new is optimism for the future, borrowed refers to happiness borrowed from others and the blue symbolizes love and purity (theKnot.com).
From something small and sentimental, to something with a large "wow" factor, here are some suggestions for old items to have with you or use on your wedding day:
Wedding transportation: How about a classic car?
Clothing and accessories: Do you own any heirloom pieces of jewelry?
Consider sewing a button or fabric from your parents' wedding clothing inside of the wedding
dress.
Wear a veil that has been handed down through generations.
Incorporate antique ribbon or an old hat pin or brooch into the bouquet.
Location: Choose an historic venue to hold the ceremony and/or reception.
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Photograph of the Contemporary Arts Center in 1970. Now, the location of The Center! :) |
Images: Are there any great photographs from your parents' or grandparents' weddings? What about pictures of the bride and groom from his and her childhoods? You can carry these images with you, or have them on display as reminders of the past as you move forward into the future.
Just for fun: Try incorporating old or out-dated technology - for example, use typewriters for the guest book entries.
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Photograph by Christina Littleton Photography. November 2011 reception in The Center! |
For these ideas and more, visit Voices.yahoo.com
You can probably handle the borrowing from family and friends, but where do you find a sixpence? There are companies who sell these as wedding keepsakes, or you can use a dime or penny as an alternative. This small touch is intended to represent wealth and financial security. (marthastewartweddings.com)
Oh, and we have you covered on the "something new" and "something blue" too! Our LED lit dome ceiling has a variety of color options and the recent renovations definitely qualify as new :)
Oh, and we have you covered on the "something new" and "something blue" too! Our LED lit dome ceiling has a variety of color options and the recent renovations definitely qualify as new :)
115 East Fifth Street
Cincinnati, Ohio 45202
Wednesday, August 29, 2012
N is for Name Cards
Name cards, (also known as place cards) are a nice, easy way to help your guests find their assigned seat.
Not sure if you want to have assigned seating? Definitely think about it! This great article from weddingchannel.com explains that planning the seating arrangement ahead of time greatly reduces the stress and anxiety your guests may face in having to choose his or her own seat. There is a good chance, especially with a larger guest list, that there are a few feuding relatives who do not want to see each other, couples who deperately want to sit together, or guests who do not know anyone except the bride and groom and have no idea where to take a seat!
Once you have decided on how you want your tables arranged and who will be where, designing the place cards is a good way to direct your guests to the proper location. You may choose to number your tables, or if you have a theme, you may want to get creative and name your tables. Many people with have the cards organized alphabetically by last name as guests enter the reception. Guests find their name card, with the table designation also printed on it, and then seat themselves at the appropriate table.
For a more formal event, consider using escort cards in addition to the name cards. Have an envelope with your guest's name printed on the outside and have the table printed on a card inside of the envelope. Once guests arrive at their table, they will find their individual place card at their designated seat.
A seating chart may work better for your event than a table full of place cards. We have seen many creative ideas, such as writing guest names and table numbers on an ornate mirror, or designing artistic posters. Once guests spot their names and find their tables, name cards can again be used to designate a specific seat at that table.
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Tented place cards look nice, are more visible and easier for guests to pick up. |
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Flat business card-like place cards are also an option. These can be creatively designed to incorporate a theme, or placed in holders to make them easier for guests to see. |
Not sure if you want to have assigned seating? Definitely think about it! This great article from weddingchannel.com explains that planning the seating arrangement ahead of time greatly reduces the stress and anxiety your guests may face in having to choose his or her own seat. There is a good chance, especially with a larger guest list, that there are a few feuding relatives who do not want to see each other, couples who deperately want to sit together, or guests who do not know anyone except the bride and groom and have no idea where to take a seat!
Once you have decided on how you want your tables arranged and who will be where, designing the place cards is a good way to direct your guests to the proper location. You may choose to number your tables, or if you have a theme, you may want to get creative and name your tables. Many people with have the cards organized alphabetically by last name as guests enter the reception. Guests find their name card, with the table designation also printed on it, and then seat themselves at the appropriate table.
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Consider a simple frame to hold your wedding name cards. |
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Stands like these are also great options for the name cards and table numbers. |
For a more formal event, consider using escort cards in addition to the name cards. Have an envelope with your guest's name printed on the outside and have the table printed on a card inside of the envelope. Once guests arrive at their table, they will find their individual place card at their designated seat.
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Love this unique idea for a place card at the table! Also a great way to work in a theme. |
A seating chart may work better for your event than a table full of place cards. We have seen many creative ideas, such as writing guest names and table numbers on an ornate mirror, or designing artistic posters. Once guests spot their names and find their tables, name cards can again be used to designate a specific seat at that table.
Your name cards can also be used for unique favors for your guests!
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Think about using candy as your name card holder. Guests can find their seat, and enjoy a small treat! |
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Try using an object that guests can take home with them as a personalized momento from your wedding. |
Monday, August 20, 2012
M is for Makeup
Picture from chicfashionblog.com
Pre-Wedding Considerations:
1. Do you want to hire a professional makeup artist, or do you want to do it yourself?
For tips on how to hire a wedding makeup artist: CLICK HERE.
2. If you are prone to breakouts, you may want to schedule an appointment with your dermatologist three to four months prior to the wedding.
3. Schedule your facial at least two weeks before the wedding, if you would like to have that done.
4. Have your eyebrows done five to seven days before the wedding - definitely be sure to avoid plucking your eyebrows the day of!
5. Schedule a pre-wedding consultation three to five weeks before the wedding. Following the same principle we applied to your wedding hair, (CLICK HERE to see the post) practice makes perfect! Whether you hire a professional or do it yourself, it is a good idea to schedule time to meet with the makeup artist or go on your own to a cosmetic store. Buy your products and begin practicing approximately three months in advance. Invest in quality products - you want the look to last!
6. Keep your complexion in mind as you choose your shades of makeup. Also, take into consideration the time of year and your wedding colors and theme. Make sure that you are comfortable with the makeup. You want to look your best, but you don't want to look like a different person. For tips on choosing your makeup colors: CLICK HERE.
7. Staying hydrated is important for a healthy, radiant look. Drink plenty of water leading up to your wedding!
Picture from Weddingbee.com
Wedding Day Considerations:
1. Start with a clean face!
2. Wear a button down shirt so that you don't mess up your makeup as you change into your dress. You may also want to cover your face with a towel to avoid getting makeup on the dress.
3. If you'll be outdoors for the wedding - apply sunscreen first!
4. If your worst nightmare becomes a reality and you wake up with a blemish...
Step 1 - Don't panic!
Step 2 - Apply a drop of visene to reduce the redness.
Step 3 - Use a concealer to cover the spot.
Step 4 - Apply foundation. Crisis averted. Continue living the day you dreamed!
5. Have some powder nearby in case you need to do any touch ups throughout the day.
Makeup Tips:
Apply a primer before adding your foundation to extend the length of time your makeup will last.
Foundation:
Use a creamy foundation for dry to normal skin. For oily skin, use a powder foundation.
Concealer is also an option. It helps to cover any spots or redness and there are more available color options to help you match your skin tone. To make your concealer last longer, mix it with a drop of foundation before applying to your face.
Blot the foundation after application in order to remove any excess oil. Follow with lightweight, oil free powder for a long-lasting effect.
Eyes:
It's your wedding day - don't hesitate to shine! Use shimmer eyeshadow to brighten your eyes. Pale gold or silver tones are perfect for achieving this look.
An eyelid primer will make your eyeshadow last longer.
Adding white shadow to your brow bone, directly underneath your eyebrow, and in the inside corners will highlight your eyes.
Be sure to use waterproof mascara!
Cheeks:
Use a brush that is the same size as the apple of your cheek to add a light peach or pink blush to highlight the cheekbones.
Lips:
If your lips are cracked, a layer of foundation will help fill them in.
For the lips, first apply a lip base or chapstick.
Use a light to medium lipstick (or a darker shade if you're comfortable with that).
Finish off the look with a lip gloss for an extra shine.
For mistakes to avoid: CLICK HERE
For these tips, videos and more, visit these sites: Knot for Life, Makeup and Beauty Blog and Ezine.
Thursday, August 16, 2012
L is for License
The Marriage License: Licensed to Wed
Bride and Groom Planner suggests that the marriage license be obtained two to three weeks before the wedding date.
The requirements and process for applying for a marriage license vary by State. It is important to research the process in the area in which you plan to marry, so that you are aware of all potential fees and what documentation you may need to bring with you.
The Hamilton County Probate Court handles marriage license applications for Hamilton County, Ohio residents who plan to marry in Ohio, as well as out of state residents who wish to get married in Hamilton County. For more details, CLICK HERE. In Hamilton County, both the bride and groom must be present during the application process and the couple must be married within 60 days of receiving the license. For more information on fees and necessary items, CLICK HERE.
It is also important to note the requirements concerning who may legally perform a marriage ceremony:
"Not just anyone can perform a marriage ceremony in the state of Ohio. Marriages are to be performed by an ordained minister of any religious society or congregation within the state licensed to perform marriages; the Probate Court Judge or any other judge appointed as a probate judge; a Judge of a Municipal Court; the mayor of a municipal corporation in any county in which such municipal corporation wholly or partly lies, the superintendent of the state school for the deaf; or any religious society, in conformity with the rules and regulations of its church." Hamilton County Probate Court
Bride and Groom Planner suggests that the marriage license be obtained two to three weeks before the wedding date.
The requirements and process for applying for a marriage license vary by State. It is important to research the process in the area in which you plan to marry, so that you are aware of all potential fees and what documentation you may need to bring with you.
The Hamilton County Probate Court handles marriage license applications for Hamilton County, Ohio residents who plan to marry in Ohio, as well as out of state residents who wish to get married in Hamilton County. For more details, CLICK HERE. In Hamilton County, both the bride and groom must be present during the application process and the couple must be married within 60 days of receiving the license. For more information on fees and necessary items, CLICK HERE.
It is also important to note the requirements concerning who may legally perform a marriage ceremony:
"Not just anyone can perform a marriage ceremony in the state of Ohio. Marriages are to be performed by an ordained minister of any religious society or congregation within the state licensed to perform marriages; the Probate Court Judge or any other judge appointed as a probate judge; a Judge of a Municipal Court; the mayor of a municipal corporation in any county in which such municipal corporation wholly or partly lies, the superintendent of the state school for the deaf; or any religious society, in conformity with the rules and regulations of its church." Hamilton County Probate Court
Tuesday, August 7, 2012
K is for Kiss
A newly married couple's first kiss is a staple of the Western wedding. Some view the kiss as fulfillment of the scripture, symbolizing an exchange of souls. The custom can also be traced back to contracts in ancient Rome, which were considered complete after an exchange of a kiss.
CLICK HERE for tips on how to pull off that perfect first kiss!
There are many people who enjoy clinking their glasses or ringing bells at the reception to signal the bride and groom to share a smooch. What may have been lost in this tradition is the ancient Christian belief that the noise scares the devil away, allowing the couple to kiss in his absence.
For those who do not enjoy the noisy tradition, check out these alternatives, like having your guests trade in their cutlery and glassware and sing you a song instead! CLICK HERE
Tuesday, July 31, 2012
J is for Jewelry
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Selecting the ring:
Do your research. Look online and in magazines for the different settings, styles and shapes. Inform yourself about the different metals or combination of metals available for the band of the ring. Talk with jewelers to learn more about diamonds and what makes them such a valuable investment.
Set your budget before you begin shopping. It's always a good idea to know what you can afford and what limitations you may have in terms of cost.
The groom to be does not have to stick to old traditions of shopping for the ring alone. Modern couples increasingly work through the process of selecting the engagement ring together. However, if you prefer to surprise her with the ring of her dreams, here are a few tips on how to determine what she will like:
Questions to ask the jeweler:
Make your final decision and purchase the ring! Don't get the ring too far in advance of the proposal - you don't want to have to worry about hiding it for long or keeping it safe. Have the ring appraised and insured before the proposal.
For more tips and information, check out these links:
Wikihow.com
Brideandgroomplanner.com
Selecting the ring:
Do your research. Look online and in magazines for the different settings, styles and shapes. Inform yourself about the different metals or combination of metals available for the band of the ring. Talk with jewelers to learn more about diamonds and what makes them such a valuable investment.
Set your budget before you begin shopping. It's always a good idea to know what you can afford and what limitations you may have in terms of cost.
The groom to be does not have to stick to old traditions of shopping for the ring alone. Modern couples increasingly work through the process of selecting the engagement ring together. However, if you prefer to surprise her with the ring of her dreams, here are a few tips on how to determine what she will like:
- Casually ask her about rings - look for opportunities like when walking past a jewelry store or after someone you know gets engaged. Subtlety is important, or else she will catch on quickly!
- Talk to her family and friends (as long as you're sure they won't spill the beans). They may already have an idea of what she wants, or you can enlist their help in talking to her and figuring it out.
- Look at the jewelry and clothes that she usually wears. This will give you a good sense of her style and taste.
- Is a traditional diamond ring what she wants? If not, explore alternative options or look into recycled metals/conflict-free diamonds.
Questions to ask the jeweler:
- Is there a warranty or guarantee?
- Can I have a Certificate of Authenticity?
- Can the ring be returned?
- How is the value determined for insurance purposes?
- Do you offer engraving?
- Ask about "The Four C's" - Cut, Color, Clarity and Carat
Make your final decision and purchase the ring! Don't get the ring too far in advance of the proposal - you don't want to have to worry about hiding it for long or keeping it safe. Have the ring appraised and insured before the proposal.
For more tips and information, check out these links:
Wikihow.com
Brideandgroomplanner.com
Friday, July 27, 2012
I is for Iconic
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A look back at some of the most striking wedding dresses. From real life princesses, Hollywood royalty, and Rock 'n' Roll legends, to the gowns featured in fantasy weddings on the screen, scroll through these timeless wedding fashions.
Queen Victoria 1840 - The look that started it all!
The Classics
Queen Elizabeth II 1946
Elizabeth Taylor 1950
Jacqueline Kennedy 1953
Audrey Hepburn 1954
Grace Kelly 1956
Princess Margaret 1960
Ava Gardner 1961
Raquel Welch 1967
Princess Anne 1973
Princess Diana 1981
Carolyn Bessette Kennedy 1996
Kate Middleton 2011
Rock 'N' Roll
Priscilla Beaulieu 1967
Yoko Ono 1969
Bianca Jagger 1971
Gwen Stefani 2002
On Screen
"The Razor's Edge" Featuring Gene Tierney 1946
"Father of the Bride" Featuring Elizabeth Taylor 1950
"The Sound of Music" Featuring Julie Andrews 1965
General Hospital - Luke and Laura's Wedding 1981
"Sex and The City" Featuring Sarah Jessica Parker 2008
The Disney Princesses
Find more Princess Dresses Here: Princess Dresses
*Sarah Jessica Parker (Real Life Wedding) 1997
A look back at some of the most striking wedding dresses. From real life princesses, Hollywood royalty, and Rock 'n' Roll legends, to the gowns featured in fantasy weddings on the screen, scroll through these timeless wedding fashions.
Queen Victoria 1840 - The look that started it all!
The Classics
Queen Elizabeth II 1946
Elizabeth Taylor 1950
Jacqueline Kennedy 1953
Audrey Hepburn 1954
Grace Kelly 1956
Princess Margaret 1960
Ava Gardner 1961
Raquel Welch 1967
Princess Anne 1973
Princess Diana 1981
Carolyn Bessette Kennedy 1996
Kate Middleton 2011
Rock 'N' Roll
Priscilla Beaulieu 1967
Yoko Ono 1969
Bianca Jagger 1971
Gwen Stefani 2002
On Screen
"The Razor's Edge" Featuring Gene Tierney 1946
"Father of the Bride" Featuring Elizabeth Taylor 1950
"The Sound of Music" Featuring Julie Andrews 1965
General Hospital - Luke and Laura's Wedding 1981
"Sex and The City" Featuring Sarah Jessica Parker 2008
The Disney Princesses
Find more Princess Dresses Here: Princess Dresses
*Sarah Jessica Parker (Real Life Wedding) 1997
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