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Selecting the ring:

Do your research. Look online and in magazines for the different settings, styles and shapes. Inform yourself about the different metals or combination of metals available for the band of the ring. Talk with jewelers to learn more about diamonds and what makes them such a valuable investment.

Set your budget before you begin shopping. It's always a good idea to know what you can afford and what limitations you may have in terms of cost.

The groom to be does not have to stick to old traditions of shopping for the ring alone. Modern couples increasingly work through the process of selecting the engagement ring together. However, if you prefer to surprise her with the ring of her dreams, here are a few tips on how to determine what she will like:

• Casually ask her about rings - look for opportunities like when walking past a jewelry store or after someone you know gets engaged. Subtlety is important, or else she will catch on quickly!
• Talk to her family and friends (as long as you're sure they won't spill the beans). They may already have an idea of what she wants, or you can enlist their help in talking to her and figuring it out.
• Look at the jewelry and clothes that she usually wears. This will give you a good sense of her style and taste.
• Is a traditional diamond ring what she wants? If not, explore alternative options or look into recycled metals/conflict-free diamonds.

Questions to ask the jeweler:

• Is there a warranty or guarantee?
• Can I have a Certificate of Authenticity?
• Can the ring be returned?
• How is the value determined for insurance purposes?
• Do you offer engraving?
• Ask about "The Four C's" - Cut, Color, Clarity and Carat

Make your final decision and purchase the ring! Don't get the ring too far in advance of the proposal - you don't want to have to worry about hiding it for long or keeping it safe. Have the ring appraised and insured before the proposal.

For more tips and information, check out these links:
Wikihow.com
Brideandgroomplanner.com