Thursday, May 31, 2012

Cincinnati Hosts the 2012 World Choir Games

The 2012 World Choir Games are quickly approaching.



Cincinnati will host the 7th annual choral competition - the first time the bi-annual international event will be held in the United States of America - from July 4th to July 14th. Over 360 choirs from 48 countries will be participating in the games. An estimated 20,000 participants and 200,000 spectators are expected to attend the competition, boosting Cincinnati's economy and bringing positive attention to the region. The goal of the World Choir Games is to "unite people from all nations through singing in peaceful competition." (2012worldchoirgames.com)

The games are produced by INTERKULTUR, an organization based in Germany which produces choral events worldwide. The World Choir Games is the organization's signature event. Click HERE for more information.

Gospel artist Kirk Franklin has written the official theme song for the 2012 games. "I Can" was released on May 23, 2012 and will be performed by a mass choir at the opening ceremony.

Tuesday, May 29, 2012

When it Rains it Pours: The Bridal Shower




We've entered wedding season - which means that you've probably seen an increase in invites in the mail, and in the bridal showers and bachelorette parties you're attending. Maybe you have just realized that your sister's upcoming nuptials means that you are responsible for planning the bridal shower yourself! Never fear, we have researched as many aspects of the Bridal Shower as we can think of and now present you with the best themes, games, etiquette advice, and gift ideas we can find!


The Bridal Shower

The whole purpose of the bridal shower is to give the bride-to-be gifts that would help she and her groom establish a home. It is also meant to be a relaxed time to gather with close friends and family before the big day. The traditions and expectations have shifted between the 1890's and today, but the overall goal is still to honor the bride.

The bridal shower is typically hosted by the Maid of Honor and/or the bridesmaids, anywhere from two months to two days prior to the wedding. It is becoming more and more common for the Mother of the Bride to host the shower (in the past, this was taboo). Guests should include the wedding party, grandmothers, mothers, and sisters of the bride and groom, and the bride's close friends and co-workers.

*Remember: It is meant to be a smaller, intimate group, rather than a big blow-out-bash with everyone on the wedding guest list in attendance. Some people are now having multiple showers for family, co-workers, friends in order to avoid having so many people who are not familiar with each other together (and also because these are being given by people other than the Bride). Keep in mind that there are people who may feel obligated to attend all of the showers, which can make them feel pressured to buy multiple gifts. It may be good to make it clear that additional gifts are not expected.

For these tips and more check out Bridal Shower Etiquette Basics, Planning Tips, Multiple Showers Etiquette and The Knot



Shower Theme Ideas

The shower theme can be pulled off through decorations, location, activities, or the types of gifts that guests bring. You can avoid the traditional by doing something active or outdoors (i.e. rock climbing, attending a sporting event) but try to take everyone in the group into consideration when planning. Especially the bride! Try to assign responsibilities to guests as well, so that everyone feels included. 

     Spa and Beauty Day - This shower idea does not have to break the bank by holding it at an actual spa. An afternoon of relaxation is easy to pull off on your own with at home facials!
     Co-ed - The gifts are intended for the bride and groom's future home, so why not let them both share in receiving them? Gone are the days of the dowry and the all-girls gathering can certainly make room for a few gents.
     Gift Themes - A great way of separating the bridal shower gifts from the wedding gifts is to have a specific theme for guests to match for the shower. It is a good idea for the bride to register so that guests have items to choose from but it is also fun for people to be able to give something a little different from what they might purchase for the actual wedding. Some fun ideas are a Stock-the-Bar shower, where guests help the soon-to-be-married couple set up their first bar by bringing top shelf alcohol. If alcohol isn't quite right for the shower, you can request kitchen items or travel related gifts.
     Music - In addition to helping the couple prepare for life after the wedding, you can also help out with the wedding planning! Go to a concert and have guests bring CD's or playlist ideas. The perfect love songs are not always easy to come by and sometimes it takes a group effort to find the right ones!

Check out these ideas and more from TLC Weddings.


The Bow-quet

The bow-quet is fun, easy and helps the bridesmaids/relatives feel involved while the bride opens an abundance of gifts. Don't forget the supplies! You need tape, scissors, and a paper plate. Poke holes in the plate and tie a couple of ribbons through them to create a stem at the back of the plate for the bride to hold onto as she uses the bow-quet in place of her bouquet at the rehearsal. Then continue to add the bows and ribbons that you collect as the bride unwraps her gifts.



Games

     Toilet Paper Dress and Veil - Guests are divided into teams of three or four. Each team designates a model and is given a roll of toilet paper and several clips. They are given five minutes to design and create a wedding dress. (If possible, have the teams work in separate rooms or out of sight of their competition.) At the end of the five minutes, all of the teams come back together and the bride picks the winning dress.

     How Well Does the Bride Know the... Gum! - This is the "How Well Does the Bride Know the Groom" game with a twist. The groom is asked questions about himself (the goal is to make them difficult things that the bride would not know) and during the party, the bride is asked to answer the same questions about the groom. For each questions she gets wrong, she has to add a piece of gum to her mouth. Need inspiration for questions? Click HERE

     Pass the bouquet (or bow-quet) - Similar to musical chairs, the bouquet is passed around a in a circle as music plays. Each time the music stops, the person holding the bouquet is eliminated from the game.

     Blushing Bride Jeopardy - Guests participate in a game of Jeopardy featuring questions about the bride and wedding related topics. All answers must be given in question form!

*Remember: The goal of these activities should not be to embarrass anyone. Try to avoid games that require writing and instead focus on games that are light-hearted and require everyone to participate!

For these ideas and more, visit purpletrail.com or TLC Weddings


Gifts

Gifts off of the registry are perfectly fine, but so are gifts that are unique or offer that personal touch. Here are a few fun and different ideas we've come across!
Featured on weddingbee.com - Special Moments Wine!


Each bottle has a tag, commemorating a special occasion, reason to celebrate... or in the case of the first fight, a reason to drink ;) This idea could definitely be taken in different directions as well - maybe instead of wine, gift cards to nice restaurants, or decorations for each holiday the couple will celebrate in their first year. The possibilities are endless with a unique and thoughtful gift like this! 

Recipe Book
Collect recipes from everyone invited to attend the bridal shower and have them send in a picture of themselves with the bride. Put the recipes and pictures together in a book, to give the gift something special and help her cook! A friend of mine's grandmother did this and even printed off copies of the recipes so that all of the guests had a book of their own to take home.





Thursday, May 24, 2012

The Surprise Wedding


Mark Zuckerberg’s recent surprise wedding to his girlfriend of eight years made headlines, but he is not the first to have a successful and sneaky ceremony. Other celebrities have used tactics like the bait and switch - giving the press one date and then getting hitched sooner - jetting off to private islands, or a pulling a Britney Spears and quickly eloping. Brad Paisley and Kimberly Williams famously pulled off a surprise wedding by turning their rehearsal into the actual ceremony. Julia Roberts and Danny Moder had close friends and family join them to “celebrate Independence Day” and plenty of other couples have kept their plans to marry under wraps until the very last moment as well. Just a few are listed below:

Daniel Craig + Rachel Weisz
Jessica Alba + Cash Warren
Kenney Chesney + Renee Zellweger
Jennifer Lopez + Marc Anthony
Scarlett Johansson + Ryan Reynolds
Mariah Carey + Nick Cannon

You can read about these and other sudden/shocking nuptials in these articles as well:

It isn’t just the rich and famous who want all the magic of the big day without the fuss. The paparazzi may not be the main source of worry for all, but the stress of long, drawn out planning process can get to anyone…

If you have a few minutes to spare, check out this adorable story of a couple who just was not loving the direction their planning was taking them, so they decided to speed everything up and only seven days later, they surprised their engagement party guests with the wedding ceremony they really had in mind! 

Monday, May 21, 2012

The Art of Toasting

The Wedding Toast


The toast is a unique and interesting wedding tradition. In the pre-wedding discussions friends and family tend to focus on the colors, the venue, the food, and we can't forget the dress! Only the individuals who have the designated honor of delivering the special speech may make mention of the tricky task. Not that the toast has to be difficult to make, but there is the knowledge that a bad or awkward speech will stick in the minds of all who heard it. No pressure!

Typically, the Best Man, Maid of Honor, and Fathers of the Bride and Groom deliver a toast. The Bride and Groom may designate other individuals to deliver a speech as well, or in place of the customary speech givers. The toast can take place at the rehearsal dinner or reception.

Often the Groom also speaks after the toasts have been made in order to thank the guests for attending the ceremony and/or reception.

One of the hardest parts of toasting, especially for those among us who feel that we are stand up comedians, is deciding whether to be sentimental or hilarious. If you've seen the movie Wedding Crashers, art imitates life as Claire's (Rachel McAdams) toast gets off to a rough start, which she only recovers from thanks to advice from John (Owen Wilson), "The whole funny-because-it's-true bit only works if the truth is a *small* thing like, 'Everyone knows Jennifer likes to shop, ha ha ha." I think you're better off going with something from the heart. Honestly."


Toasting Advice
Some great tips to make your toast the talk of the town (in a good way) include:

1. Do not stress. Giving the toast is an honor and ultimately it is about the Bride and Groom and their marriage. If public speaking isn't your strong suit, that's okay, but don't apologize for it during the speech!

2. Remember the basics of speech giving - practice makes perfect! Speak at a good pace, speak clearly, avoid fillers like "uh," make eye contact, etc. Whether you write it down or wing it, you will be more comfortable with it if you've practiced beforehand.

3. Do not ramble, and keep the focus on the Bride and Groom. Telling a childhood story or describing how the Bride and Groom met are great ideas for the toast, but if your story does not include the Bride or Groom in it or if the story lasts longer than the reception, rethink telling it.

4. Stay positive. You are taking part in a celebration - no need to dig up past conflicts or predict rough patches in the future.

5. Avoid vulgarity/inappropriate or controversial topics. Staying neutral is really your best bet.

6. As referenced in the quote from Wedding Crashers above, if you decide to be funny, aim for subtle humor and don't be mean!

7. Think before you drink! A glass of wine may help calm your nerves, but don't over do it. You do not want to deliver your toast with slurred speech or blurting out things that you did not mean to say.

8. Watch the emotions. A tear from the Father of the Bride's eye is cute, but the Maid of Honor sobbing uncontrollably for an extended period of time is not cute.

9. Try to keep the toast to 5 minutes or less

10. You are not giving a lecture. This is not the best time to dole out advice.


For more ideas and tips on preparing a wedding toast, click HERE

Friday, May 18, 2012

Taste of Cincinnati 2012


Taste of Cincinnati


Featuring food from over 40 fine restaurants, one of the largest street festivals in the United States, Taste of Cincinnati, has been held downtown every Memorial Day Weekend since 1979 (also making it the country’s longest running culinary arts festival). The event has taken place on Fifth Street since 2007 and nearly 500,000 people come out to enjoy the great food and continuous live entertainment – a mix of both local and national musical talent. 


The When:
Memorial Day Weekend 2012
Saturday, May 26 noon – midnight
Sunday, May 27 noon – midnight
Monday, May 28 noon to 9:00 p.m.
The Where:
Fifth Street between Race and Broadway
The Cost:
Free!




In addition to the food and entertainment, Taste of Cincinnati will hold beer and wine tasting.
Cost: $20 per person/ $35 for two people, or for both events
(Fee includes souvenir wine glass or beer pint and dishes featured in the festival)
Beer "Taste-ing" Saturday, May 26, 3 p.m. - 5 p.m.
Wine "Taste-ing" Sunday, May 27, 3 p.m. - 5 p.m.
Location: Fountain Square 


New This Year!

Cincinnati's Food Trucks will also be featured at the 2012 Taste of Cincinnati! Cafe de Wheels (pictured below) is just one of the trendy mobile food vendors that will be parked amidst the festival booths. For more, click HERE.

(Photo from Campbells Scoop)


Please Note:
Street Closings
Closing at 6 p.m. Friday and reopening at 5 a.m. Tuesday:
  • Fifth Street between Race and Sentinel streets
  • Race Street between Fifth and Sixth streets
  • Vine Street between Fourth and Sixth streets
  • Walnut Street between Fourth and Sixth streets
  • Main Street between Fourth and Sixth streets
  • Sycamore Street between Fourth and Sixth streets
  • Broadway between Fourth and Sixth streets
No parking will be permitted on any of those streets, however access will be provided to parking garages and hotels. Many parking garages and lots are along 3rd, 4th and 6th streets.

Thursday, May 17, 2012

2012 Summer Trends

BRIGHT COLORS

The colors of the 2012 Summer Season include tangerine, fuschia, yellow and grey. The Knot recommends picking just two colors, or maybe two plus an accent, to avoid having too many colors in competition on the palette. You can make a bold and dramatic statemate by using pops of brightly toned fabric, flowers, and decor in the right way! HuffPost Weddings featured a great tip from BrideRush.com's Anita Malik - an affordable way for you to bring color into your reception is by adding bright straws, drinks, or glasses.





Ranunculus

According to jessicaswedding.com the Ranunculus will be big this summer. From the pictures below, it makes perfect sense. The bright, summery colors fit right in with the 2012 trends.





Eco Friendly

There are plenty of ways to be trendy and earth friendly at the same time! From your pre-wedding save the dates and invites to the centerpieces that your guests can take home with them, you can show your love for the environment and your future spouse!

1. Use recycled paper and natural ink for your invites, programs, etc.
2. You can use locally grown herbs in your centerpieces and decor. Have them in recycled or recyclable containers and allow guests to take them with them as they go!
3. Antique/heirloom rings. Using jewelry that has been passed down through generations is a great idea, not only for the sentimental value and significance, but also because no virgin metals are used in the process.

Romantic

Many of the trend spotters out there suggest that this is a trend inspired by last year's royal wedding, but no matter what started it, brides are opting for sophisticated, classic dresses with lace and long sleeves. Read more from TLC Weddings.


The romance trend is found outside of the dress department too. Voyage NYC predicts that you'll see plenty of it in the centerpieces and florals this summer... "Birds, butterflies, ferns and branches."



And don't forget the hair! Wedding Timmins highlights the vintage/old hollywood glam hair that is trending along side the classic, vintage dress. This look is completed by pinning loose finger curls off to one side. There is also a "big" hair trend accompanied by unique accessories - thank you extensions!



The Beach

Beach and garden themes are popular in the summer. And why not? "The sun is shining, the weather is sweet..." But you can make this theme extra special by making it specific to particular beach. Maybe one you frequented as a child? Your honeymoon destination? 


Wine Smoothies

Try something a little out of the ordinary for your signature drink! The Knot suggests serving a, "fruity wine blended with ice and fruits of your choice." Cool, refreshing, and unexpected!


Jeweled Bouquet

Did someone say sparkly? Flowers are wonderful, but the modern bride is not limited to one option on any aspect of the wedding today. A great alternative to the floral bouque is the brooch bouquet. TLC Weddings says that you can make your own or have a company that specializes in high-end, custom bouquets design one for you. These can incorporate family heirlooms or any pieces you would like to showcase!


LINKS
http://wedding.theknot.com/real-weddings/summer-weddings/articles/8-hot-summer-wedding-trends.aspx
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/05/03/wedding-trends_n_1474812.html
http://tlc.howstuffworks.com/weddings/10-summer-wedding-trends-for-modern-brides.htm
http://www.weddingtimmins.com/hair-trends-for-summer-weddings-2012
http://www.voyagenyc.com/blog/best-wedding-trends-for-springsummer-2012-romantic-florals
http://voices.yahoo.com/wedding-trends-spring-summer-2012-11274206.html?cat=23
http://www.thecentercincinnati.com


Tuesday, May 15, 2012

11 Steps in the Last Stages of Planning

You've completed the 11 Starting Steps in planning your wedding. Then you breezed through 11 More Steps in the wedding planning process. You won't be done after this next set either :) but you are getting so close... You'll be married before you know it!

With only a few weeks to go, here are some of the things you should cross off your list:

Step 1 - Obtain marriage license with fiance.

Step 2 - Pick up wedding rings with fiance.



Step 3 - Make changes to insurance policies, banking information, wills and other legal documents.

Step 4 - Select wedding present for bride/groom.



Step 5 - Make sure you have all wedding accessories - toasting goblets, ring pillow, garter, candles, guestbook, etc.

Step 6 - Reconfirm accommodations for out of town guests.

Step 7 - Finalize rehearsal and rehearsal dinner plans.


Step 8 - Finalize photography plans (Don't forget about the Flow Chart  from the Independent Wedding Association that we featured in our Charting the way to "I Do" blog post!) and work with your stylist on hair and make-up w/veil and accessories for the day of the wedding.

Step 9 - Give your final guest count to the caterer and/or hotel.

Step 10 - Assemble your wedding attire.

Step 11 - Make sure that all wedding gratuties and checks for balances due have been sent to vendors.



Bride and Groom Planner has updated the Timeline for planning! Check it out for an even more detailed list of what to do throughout the planning process, along with great tips like having a list of people giving toasts and remembering to break in your shoes before the day of the wedding!

Stay tuned to our blog for what steps to take the week of the wedding!


Friday, May 11, 2012

Get to Know: Jeff Thomas Catering

See below for our Q&A with Jeff Thomas, owner of Jeff Thomas Catering!


Background:

Q: How long have you been in business?
A: My business will be 27 years old in July. Ironically, one of my very first events was my sister's wedding. It was in the atrium outside "The Center" in 1985. But the irony continues as my niece will be married at The Center on Saturday, November 3rd and they will share their future anniversaries with Dad and Mom... (My brother and sister-in-law.)

Q: Where are you located and what areas do you serve?
A: We're located at 815 Oak Street in Ludlow, KY. We serve the tri-state region, but happily we go outside of the region. The only additional expense is driving time for staff.

Q: What types of events do you cater?
A: Weddings are a huge part of our market, but we also cater corporate events, special parties like bar and bat mitzvahs, major birthdays, not-for profit fundraiser's and intimate home gatherings. Most tend to be upscale in nature wehn clients need not only a high quality of cuisine, but also a high quality of service. Events range from seated affairs to buffets, stations and appetizer gatherings.



Q: How does the process of creating a custom menu work for clients?
A: As the owner of the company, I personally meet the client at the venue for the first encounter. At that meeting, I set the stage. We discuss floor plans, theater of the evening, what end result the client is looking to achieve and plan the menu. My background is an MBA in marketing which comes in handy for arriving at the clients needs. All proposals are e-mailed within 48 hours. The service from our office staff is stellar and a very important part of dotting i's and crossing t's which keeps bad "theater" from happening the night of the very important occasion.


Work in The Center:

Q: What do you like about the venue?
A: First, it's kinda where I grew up!! I have very fond memories when it was the former Contemporary Arts Center. Past that, the space is so user friendly. With the variety of room sizes the flexibility is amazing. For corporate events, the various room sizes make it user friendly for break-out sessions, yet [there is also] a room large enough for 300 for general assembly or dining. For social affairs, it's nice having the separate reception area with the very cool fiber-optic lighting before entering teh main dining room. Also, the main dining room can be closed off to save the "wow" factor when entering. For weddings, the ceremony can happen in the main dining room and then guests are ushered into the reception area while the room is transformed with the dining tables. The other great feature is the view of Fountain Square. It keeps the pulse of the city within reach. The staff at the facility are very accommodating and friendly. They react quickly to interested parties and schedule appointments in a very timely manner. This is a real plus and assurance that they will be attending to every detail. Finally, the fact that The Center is undecorated leaves the options endless. So many center's are so very restricting that way!!



Q: If you could throw any event at The Center, what menu would you create?
A: If I was creating a menu for my own party at The Center, it would probably be my new stations menu where everything is served in a martini glass. My staff does the plate up; the starch, vegetable and protein are all in the glass. Guests casually pick them up at their leisure. There's no wait and guests spend more time having fun than standing in lines.


Menu
Passed Hors d'oeuvres - Choose 3 of 8

Cheeseburger Wontons with Carmelized Onion and 3 Pepper Ketchup
Crab and St. Andre Grilled Cheese
Feta Artichoke Puffs with Tomato Pepper Jam
Goat Cheese Wontons with Apricot Red Chili Sauce
Pesto Pizza with Brie and Sundried Tomato
Shot Glasses of Cantaloupe Gazpacho
Shot Glasses of Italian Wedding Soup
Tuna Tartare on Guacamole Toast

Salad Station: Choose 4 of the Following

Chopped Caprese Salad with Pesto
White Corn and Bluberries with Honey Lime and Cumin
Sugar Snap Peas with Peaches in Apricot REd Chili Dressing
Chopped Romaine with Mandarin Orange, Tomato and Hearts of Palm with Sesame Ginger Dressing
Mixed Greens with Strawberry, Avocado, Grapefruit, Feta and Toastad Almonds with Balsamic Vinagrette
Mixed Greens with Gilled Pears, Sun-dried Cranberries, Toasted Walnuts and Feta with Balsamic Vinagrette
Baby Arugla with Grilled Asparagus, Beets Toasted Walnuts and Blue Cheese with Balsamic Vinagrette
Classic Caesar Salad
Classic Greek Salad
Asian Slaw


Choose 2 of the Following
(All Served with stem-less martini glasses)

Mexican Station I
Shredded Chicken Mole on White Cheddar Green Chilli Macaroni Chees with Kitchen Fried Tortilla

French Station II
Red Wine and Braised Short Ribs on Aligot Potatoes with Grilled Asparagus Garnish

Asian Station III
(Choose 2 of 4)
Pad Thai
Vegetable, Shrimp, Chicken or Beef

Indian Station IV
(Choose 2 of 3)
Spinach Masala, Chicken Makhani or Lamb Curry
On Basmati Rice with Currants and Edamame Garnish with Grilled Nan Bread

Italian Station V
Cheese Totellini in Pesto Marinara with Calamata Olives, Roasted Peppers, Hearts of Palm and Choice of Grilled Chicken Strips or Meatballs
Garnished with Garlic Bread Stick

Station VI
Lamb or Chicken Tajine on
7 Vegetable Couscous with Charmoula Sauce



Wednesday, May 9, 2012

Save the Date! Unique Ideas

There is absolutely nothing wrong with the standard Save the Date card. It arrives in the mail, it gets your point across (the point being that you're getting married on a specific date and your guests better not make other plans) and it allows you to let them know that a formal invitation will follow. Simple. Straightforward. Usually printed on Stationery... But, in the day and age of the modern Bride and Groom and the custom event, there are plenty of unique alternatives.

The Photo -

A break from the traditional stationery, yet still classic and oh, so cute! You can't go wrong with the Save the Date featuring the engaged couple in picture perfect form. This option also lets you customize the template and get creative by using your engagement pictures, old yearbook photos or even pictures from your childhood!

The Magnet -


Where do many of the notecard and printed-photo Save the Date's end up? Displayed on the refrigerator next to your cousin's A+ book report or your fiance's best friend's grocery list. The Magnetic Save the Date eliminates the need for an additional magnet and allows your announcement to cling to the refrigerator all on its own! It can even be used in place of those timeless ABC magnets to hold up Aunt So-and-so's bills! 

The Flowchart -

Flowchart from minted.com

Who can resist a good chart! Enough said.

The View Master -


Remember these? They're making a comeback and there is nothing wrong with reinventing the reel! Couples are now using the view masters for engagement pictures, Save the Dates, invitations, and to remember their favorite wedding moments for years to come! Check out the weddingwindow.com blog for more creative ideas using the view master.

The Comic Book -
 


The comic book save the date is a great way to personalize your Save the Date and share part of your story. It is a unique and memorable idea.

for The Nerd in all of us -

The flowchart and comic above were both ideas featured by Megan Finley in her December 8, 2012 blog post, "Nerdy Save the Dates to get your geeky wedding started off right!" There are plenty more on the blog, but I've included a few more of my favorites below.


What an awesome way of repurposing outdated technology?!
Love it!



Cool Ideas Found on Pinterest -

There are always fun and creative ideas on pinterest. You can search for yourself or see some of our favorites below. We've repinned even more on The Center's Cool Wedding Ideas board!   

The Balloon! -


Just like the view master and even the flowchart, the "Please inflate the Balloon" adds a fun, different, and interactive element to the Save the Date.

The Matches -


Unique, functional, and clever too!

The Koozie -



Great idea for a Save the Date or Wedding favor! It is something that your guests can use and also a nice momento to remind them of your special day!


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